Saturday, January 10, 2009

Day Seven Challenge

Here is day seven homework for the three commitments we are making for the challenge:

Spiritual
(Read the following passage together, alone as a couple)

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Now pray with each other or for each other. If you don't know what to pray then ask your spouse how you can pray for them. It doesn't have to be long or fancy, just from the heart.

Emotional
(Have a conversation around these ideas)

  • Go back and answer any questions you might have missed during the past week.
  • Spend a minute or two writing a note of appreciation for your spouse doing the Seven Day Sex Challenge.
  • Are there any adjustments you still need to make to your sex life going forward?
  • Will you commit to these plans made over the past seven days?

Physical
Go on another date tonight to celebrate all that has happened in your relationship this week. Let that lead to making love today. Also, don’t forget to make the sexual fantasy come true if you have not done so yet from earlier in the challenge!

***Romantic Hint***

Give your spouse a candlelight massage or back rub.

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